A 1:1 Conversation with Krissy — Your Professional Matchmaker
We sat down with Krissy, a certified Life Coach and Elite Matchmaker, who combines emotional insight with purposeful matchmaking to guide high-value clients toward lasting relationships. Known for her compassion and focus on authentic connections, Krissy helps reframe relationship challenges as opportunities for personal growth, using a clear, methodical approach honed through her background in education and communication systems.
Interview Questions & Answers
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“How did you become a matchmaker?”
“I became a matchmaker after hiring one myself following my divorce. The experience showed me how powerful matchmaking can be—but also how much heart and nuance were missing from the process I went through. I remember thinking, “I could do this—and do it better.” So I did. Now I help people find real, intentional connections with the kind of care I wish I’d had.”
"Can you describe your matchmaking style?"
“My matchmaking style combines gut instinct with practical insight. I focus on the big picture—values, goals, and communication—but also trust intuition. It’s not just about shared hobbies; it’s about the energy two people bring out in each other, how they handle conflict, lifestyle, and self-awareness. I pay attention to whether their connection would feel easy, exciting, or grounding. It’s less about being alike or different and more about whether they would truly understand and grow with each other.”
"What’s the one question you ask matchmaking clients to narrow down their must-haves in a potential partner?"
“What qualities or values would you absolutely not compromise on, even if everything else were perfect?”
"Is there a corresponding question or answer you are looking for from matches that clarifies they may be a good match for your client?"
“I often ask questions like: How do you usually show love or support to someone you're close to? This reveals their love language and emotional availability. What does a great weekend look like for you? This helps assess lifestyle compatibility and energy levels. When things get tough in a relationship, how do you usually handle it? This gives insight into emotional maturity and conflict style. And what kind of connection are you hoping to find and why now? This clarifies intention and timing.”
"What is the best conversation starter you’ve ever used or received?"
“What’s something totally ordinary that makes you happy?”
"What is something that you wish more people asked on first dates?"
“What does a good day look like for you?”
“What do you think increases the likelihood of a second date?”
“When the goodbye feels too soon.”
“What is a small dating gesture that instantly makes you feel appreciated?”
“A thoughtful text just to say they are thinking of you. Or when someone walks you to your car or checks that you got home safely. Small things with big impact.”
"If someone is debating whether to use a matchmaker, how do you guide them?"
“I help them get clear about what they’re truly looking for and what might be holding them back. I also ask what’s worked and what hasn’t in the past to help them consider if trying something new could be a better fit.”
"How do you vet or screen potential matches?"
“I ask questions about their values, lifestyle, relationship goals, and past experiences. I look for alignment in priorities, communication style, and long-term compatibility. It’s about understanding who they are and what they genuinely want.”
"What is the key quality someone should look for in a matchmaker?"
“The most important quality is finding a matchmaker who listens and understands not just your checklist but the deeper parts of who you are. It’s all about insight, intuition, and care.”
"How do you know when it is time to introduce a new match to your client?"
“I introduce a new match when it feels like more than just a fit on paper.”
"Do you specialize in a particular type of client or relationship goal?"
“I'm here for all kinds of situations. Whether someone is casually dating, seeking a long-term relationship, navigating life after a breakup, or simply trying to better understand themselves, I help them move forward with clarity and confidence.”
"What is your favorite thing about being a matchmaker?"
“Getting people off their screens and into real-world connection. So many great opportunities get lost in endless swiping. I love helping people break that cycle and experience something more real, grounded, and human.”
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Common questions about Elite Singles matchmaking
Frequently Asked Questions
We understand you might have questions about our service. Here are answers to what people typically ask:
What makes EliteSingles Matchmaking different from dating websites?
Instead of swiping alone, your personal Matchmaker is like a teammate, helping find quality matches to arranging introductions via quick, easy video dates. All you have to do is focus on making meaningful connections.
I'm not comfortable with technology. Is this for me?
Absolutely. Our platform is designed to be easy and intuitive no matter how tech-savvy you are.
How do you verify members?
Matchmakers personally interview every match they recommend, to make sure their profiles are accurate and authentic.
How does the video meeting process work?
We arrange comfortable video conversations from your home. Just sit back, relax, and let your Matchmaker find people to introduce you to.
What kind of support do you provide?
You receive:
• Personal guidance from your dedicated Matchmaker
• Regular communication on how the search is going
• Ongoing support and feedback on dates
How long does it typically take to meet people?
Everyone's journey is different, and we focus on quality over speed. Your Matchmaker will work at a pace that feels comfortable for you.
Who is this service for?
EliteSingles Matchmaking is primarily for busy professionals that want to find love with the help of a dedicated matchmaker with access to the largest database of elite singles.
What are the next steps after I purchase EliteSingles Matchmaking?
After purchasing EliteSingles Matchmaking, our matchmaker will arrange an intake call with you. This is to better comprehend your preferences and the type of person you're interested in meeting.
Is the setup process and matchmaking questions time-consuming?
The setup process is straightforward and efficient. It involves filling out your profile and preferences, then speaking with the matchmaker for the formal intake process, which typically takes between 30-45 minutes.
Can I specify particular attributes or interests for my matches?
Absolutely. During your conversation with the elite matchmaker, you'll have the opportunity to define specific attributes and interests you're looking for in potential matches.
Can I adjust my preferences after starting the service?
Certainly. It's common for clients to refine their preferences as they progress. Your matchmaker will work closely with you, noting what is and isn't effective in your search for your ideal match.
How does the matchmaker determine suitable matches for me?
Our experienced matchmakers consider your preferences, interests, and core values when interviewing potential prospects to assess compatibility and find your ideal match.
What happens if I don't get any matches I like?
If no matches are found, we'll reevaluate your preferences and collaborate with you to potentially broaden the pool of potential matches.
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